Why do we live in a sex crazed world? Instant gradification! How does having it now hurt people? (Believe me I've seen the hurt.) Many young people sleep around. Some looking for love. I was talking to one particular girl and I told her to why to wait. "Make yourself off limits" to guys until marriage. I explained that doing so would cause the guy to go through the "process". When love is not processed fully it is only sensual. Sensual love is surface love. When the surface changes or wears out then it's time to move on. Love that is made to wait developes roots. It goes to the soul of a person. It connects two people. As I told this young girl this she began to cry. There was a craving in her to be pure, to do what was right. I have found that young people want to hear how to have depth love. They crave Father God's love.