April 19, 2007

  • Day off today.  I was reading an article that had things that men wished their wives would know.   The first one was that men need respect above love.  

    My question is this:  What would you like your spouse to know? 

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Comments (21)

  • What would I like my spouse to know?
    Only that washing dishes won’t make his _____ fall off… other than that he’s good…

  • i would like my spouse to know ME!!!!!

    particularly since we havent met yet!

  • I’d like him to know how much I appreciate him.

  • I would like to find a spouse. Maybe.

  • ryc. got it… 2 negatives make a positive. I am smarter than I appear to be.

  • we already know each other well enough so there no more to know beside love n respect each other everyday.

  • Women need respect AND love…just ask Aritha

  • I think Men often hear things that theythink are disrespectful when they aren’t… I think i comes down to gender communication. lol

    I always want my hubby to know that I love him and respect him and am grateful to him for loving me and hang beautiful children with me… Oh There is so much more…

    I’ll tell him later… ;-b ang

  • I would want my husband to know (but I tell him often) that I think he’s a great man.  = )  I appreciate the post about the shootings.  I don’t think we need to give up rights of speech or to bear arms to keep ours freedoms.  We’ve done a pretty good job of balancing them.  It just goes to show that satan is alive and well on planet earth.  But we will be victorious!  Praise Be!  Take care & God bless.

  • That flowers ‘just because’ is a wonderful aspect. LOL! =)

  • i find this concept a little strange. shouldn’t spouses just *talk* about what they want each other to know? i’d like my spouse to know that open communication is the best way for him to get what he wants. i mean, i think he knows that already. maybe he should read the article you’re referencing.

    i just hate those “what your man/woman won’t tell you that s/he really wants” articles in cosmo and gq. fucking tell us. don’t make us read about it.

  • I’m not your spouse, but here’s what I want you to know:
    1. I love your moon calendar. I took astronomy in college and learned more than I ever wanted to know about the moon and lunar phases. I can still look at a picture and tell you the approximate date it was taken based on the moon in it. Useless junk that clutters my brain, but your calendar is a keeper.
    2. I appreciate that you are such a positive person. I know you are a minister, but I doubt that has everything to do with it.
    3. I appreciate that you don’t make me feel like I need to censor myself when I write. I don’t feel any judgment from you… ever.

    That’s all for now.
    Keep up the good work.

  • i would like him to know that i love him for who he is and that I always appreciate him for everything he has done for me =)

  • Life wouldn’t be interesting if there wasn’t a surprise here or there.  I don’t remember what it was, but a few days back I told/did/ate something and my wife said “I didn’t know that about you.”  I run into the same thing about her sometimes.   Needless to say, I don’t know what I could tell her that she doesn’t already know that I know she doesn’t know about.  They’ll just have to pop up here and there through the rest of our lives!

  • ryc:  thanks for your honesty.

  • A day off is always a good thing. I hope you enjoyed yours!

  • That telling me I am overly sensitive…is not helpful..its judgemental. 

  • hope your day off was a relaxing one…
    anything I have ever wanted (spouse,kids,clergy,family)
    I spout it out I have never been one to think someone could
    read my mind.

  • I want him to know how MUCH I appreciate and love him. Sometimes, even though I try to tell him often, he still thinks I would run away the first chance I got because I’m unhappy or feeling disappointed with my life, which is simply not true. I can’t seem to drill that through his head. RYC Thanks, I had a major setback and went back to bed but I guess some things take time.

  • I would like my spouse to know… who am I kidding? She already knows everything!

    :D

    ryc: yes, our senior pastor and his wife are both going to be ok. They are getting treatment and stuff they need, and recovering. It’s been a BUSY couple of weeks for me, though. While I’m filling in for senior pastor duties, the assoaciate pastor duties don’t go on hold. :)

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