December 2, 2011

  • Offended

    I was watching George Lopez, the TV program.  The show was about a neighbor putting up a spanish man with a sombrero as a lawn ornament.  George’s family was offended and wanted the ornament taken off the lawn. The battle was on when the neighbor said no.  I had never thought that was offensive.

    Are we becoming a nation that is over sensitive and easily offended?

Comments (24)

  • For the most part, everyone’s over sensitive. ha.

  • Yes. haha I always think people are overly sensitive, but, then again, sometimes I am too.

  • Just try sticking up for your Christian values in public and see what happens.

  • Did you know that Italians get very offended if you cut the pasta with your knife ? Now thats sensitive tough my man

  • yep…i think we have gone way too far the other way on this issue.

    damn…ie wont let me rec

  • They explained why they were offended in the episode. It was a statue of a sleeping Mexican, not a Spanish guy. A widespread stereotype of Mexicans is that they are lazy. So, yeah some Mexicans are going to be offended.

    As a mother of three half Mexican children, yes indeed I would be offended if we were walking together and noticed the neighbor had such a statue in their front yard. Yes, my children would feel like shit inside, especially my daughter who has already experienced some racism. Some Mexicans would probably laugh, but some would be offended. I think it’s very racially insensitive, although I also understand why some wouldn’t understand why it is in some parts of this country.

  • It floors me that anyone could find that not offensive, let alone whine whenever they are inconvenienced or annoyed by others being hurt by their lack of respect. Putting aside the question of whether that sort of thing is poking fun at a hurtful stereotype, the whole notion that a culture or ethnicity can be considered appropriate subjects for decorative kitsch only shows how lowly people think of that culture or ethnicity. Not only does it reveal that they see them as caricature-like and ridiculous, with no self-awareness to how equally arbitrary and ridiculous their own customs are to an external and objective observer, but that they don’t see someone who might actually look like their so-respectful portrayal as an individual. Imagine if someone displayed a Jew figurine on their front lawn as an ornament. I’m sure people would immediately understand if others took offense. Oh well, at least we know that all it takes to make people feel uncomfortable with this sort of stereotyping and caricaturing is mass murder and global tragedy and horror.

    On the other hand, why can’t people just *get over it* when their culture is condescended, insulted, or dismissed? It’s not like this has been happening between cultures, causing strife, misunderstanding and bad blood for centuries; it’s only been hundreds of years! Whatever. These sorts of things are not issues of “sensitivity.” They’re issues of comfortable supermajorities granting themselves the luxury of belonging to a post-racial, post-sexist, post-whatever world simply by deciding that it is so in order to make all guilt vanish in a puff of rationalization.

    So I guess my answer is No.

  • Some things we are over sensitive about that we shouldn’t, while other things we should be sensitive about.

  • @homealivein45 - You are not kidding there!

  • now wait a minute…isn’t george lopez the comedian that makes a HUGE pile of money by making fun of himself and the common stereotypes of his latin heritage? i often get famous people mixed up or don’t even know who they are any more, so please correct me if i am wrong here, but he is the probably last person that should have the right to complain about something like that.
    that said, i also wish to add that i believe whatever we say and/or do should regarding cultures than our own needs to honor their uniqueness and heritage with respect to help minimize misunderstandings and starve the beast of racial strife until it is finally dead and buried once and for all…

  • Of course we are. sigh!!  We think we have to appease everyone.  We don’t.

  • @bethro78 - What did you mean by that? – Just kidding – lol

  • @The_Eyes_Of_A_Painter - Can’t say I’ve ever cut my pasta with a knife – so I’m ok on that one -lol

  • @TiredSoVeryTired - Thanks for the insight.  We’ve adopted kids from different races, African Amercian, Native American and Guadamalan.  We’ve seen prejudice and it hurts.  But I guess I don’t go looking for it. 

  • @vickevlar - Thanks for your reply.  I find it really ironic because the first time I ever saw a statue of a sleeping mexican was in Tijana Mexico being sold by Mexicans. 

  • @FlashFosgitt - You are absolutely correct.  -you have a good point.

  • @Randy7777 -  And you think other Mexicans were the expected buyers, rather than tourists willing to part with loose change for a tacky souvenir? There are many, many people in this world who don’t care how they make a buck.

  • @vickevlar - No – I’m sure it was just the tourists.  I just thought it was so ironic. 

  • @Randy7777 -  That’s true, I guess; I just don’t see it as representative of anything.

Post a Comment

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *